The absence of social shaming...

Will lead to a Fight Club-esque collapse of the West.

Another MSN convo.

i dunno... does reading the game make you happy?
made me realize how clueless i was so it got me angsty for a while
and got me pissed off when i realized the opportunities i wasted away in school
i think i read it first in 2005? anyhow i know i have loads of potential the thi gn holding me back all tehse years was just cultural programming
i'm not as socially inept as soem of the guys in that book
you blame too much on culture
and you worry about race too much
for sure that's my achilles heel
just getting off to a late start but i have the theoretical framework down
but one thing for sure is
i respect women a lot less now
dont think that's a good thing
i respect women a lot
...
you're never gonna find a nice girl if you don't
...
respecting women a good thing... you do dick game, but it doesn't work for you b/c you look like a jackass
it's a good thinig but when you see women with guys who are no good how do you respect them?
i dunno how many female friends you have
but from the way you are thinking, i don't think its a lot
b/c they'll teach you a lot
i don't mean to offend you or anything, but i think respecting women is good
like that guy from DC who's blog you sent
i don't respect that guy at all... sure he gets laid, but is that the only thing
roissy yah but read his latest post? the guy is remarkably prescient about things
he sees how the west is doomed the way things are heading
i dont' know what prescient means
like a lot of foresight
you use big words
you're right i dont have many female friends, mostly acquaintances.... i dont really see a point. but the worst thing you can do is ask for advice about women from women... women are deluded about what they want in a guy
what htey say tehy want and waht they respond to are different entirely

This guy nails it.

The cultural and social implications of this shift in romance is profound. A few, naturally gifted young men will dominate the urban bar hook-up scene. Relationships are short-lived and disposable. More and more women will choose single motherhood (the latest US Census report had 41% of births in 2006 to single mothers). Young men will grow up without fathers, and fall into either "nice guy" behaviors that prevent them from having any relationships, or more likely, become as bad-boy as they can to compete for women in the urban, anonymous choice driven market. Young women without fathers will compete even more fiercely for the few "desirable" men who exhibit the baddest of bad boy behaviors. And very rapidly, the middle class behaviors we take for granted will become extinct.

In 1965, it was possible to listen to Black radio, and hear earnest, heartfelt songs of romantic yearning and love, by young Black men, about young Black women. Artists such as Marvin Gaye expressed sentiments that any Medieval troubador singing about his beloved, or the most romantic of Tin Pan Alley songwriters, would have recognized immediately. Today, Rap music compares young Black women to pieces of meat. In the 1950's, writer Theodore Dalrymple noted that it was common for even the poorest places in London to leave their doors unlocked. Now, the descendants of those people, mostly White, exhibit the most thug-like behavior, imprisoning the older inhabitants in their own homes. All this in a space of about forty years.

Middle class behavior is dependent on socializing the next generations into middle class norms. It does not just "happen" by magic, or become a blooming flower amongst urban centers. If that were the case Lagos, Nigeria, or Mexico City would be awash with middle class masses. Most important among the factors that create new generations of middle class people is the nature of romantic choice. A society of mostly single, unattached, men playing video games or viewing porn, while a few "game" many women into bed, and mostly single mothers, will not create a middle class society. Never in history has such a group done so, on the contrary it creates a brutal, all-against-all society familiar to any who have visited England's Council Estates or Chicago's Cabrini-Green housing projects.

Many commentators have blamed the ongoing Western social collapse on various factors. Socialism, the Welfare state, media degeneracy, feminism, the "Long March" of Gramscian followers through various institutions. Far more likely, is the radical shift in romantic choices, brought about by the Pill, the Condom, rising female wealth, and urban anonymity.

Start learning the Chinese anthem now.